My Summer Vacation.
My New Life (so far) by Kate.
One of the many things I love about travel is how time seems to be manipulated. On the road I feel like I am in another dimension where time stops or at least I have more ownership of my time. Travel forces you out of old habits. I think that is a really good thing. However, if you need to get actual work done while you are traveling, you must have some very strong work habits in place.
On June 1st, we uprooted ourselves from our cozy and comfortable RV Park in Austin TX, because we knew summer was coming… In Texas, that means EXTREME heat. We have done the heat many times before and we wanted out. In 2011 we had ninety days in a row with triple digit temperatures in Austin. That is when we first started plotting our summertime exit.
Fast forward to now. After living in our RV for a year and some change, we rationalized, our house is on wheels. This is why we live in a tiny travel trailer, so we can roll, so we can chase some good weather…
We did something that we knew how to do. We headed North. Almost as far North as you can possibly go in the US. We also played music. Our band, Before Dawn, has always been a great reason to travel.
We had a great time playing shows at Steel Bridge Songfest in Sturgeon Bay, WI. Then, we went even further North to my parents remote cabin in the Northwoods of Wisconsin, near Lake Superior and the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. We parked our tiny house on wheels in their yard and continued to live in it. We were in the warm embrace of family and far from the scorching Texas heat.
One of the main reasons my parents got this cabin was to have fun, relaxing, “family times” together in the summer. We were going for it damn it! All the way! All family – all the time!!! What could possibly go wrong? This was Clark Griswold and Chet Ripley’s biggest fantasy come true. National Lampoons Vacation meets The Great Outdoors!
The Northwoods has a culture and lore that is all its own. Without getting too esoteric, it is something that cannot be explained, it has to be felt. If you have been there, you know exactly what I mean. It is magical. It is densely populated with trees and wildlife, but not people. There are more stars than you know exist, and tons of lakes, both named and unnamed. Sometimes the silence, peace and solitude are so intense that it feels almost violent. Eventually you get used to it and realize that it is exactly what your brain, your heart and your soul needed. Your cellphone and internet are nearly useless. You are forced to be with yourself, with nature, and with your family. Without being distracted. Perhaps it is disconcerting at first, but it is ultimately glorious.
I have to admit it took me about two and a half weeks to quit flipping out. “What have we done???” I missed Whole Foods and Planet Fitness something fierce. City life in Austin was comfortable and familiar. I had not spent this much time with my parents as an adult since I moved out when I was eighteen. How would this dynamic work? We are all living in the woods together! I felt very overwhelmed by this life change and feared the loss of my autonomy.
I fully expected my mother and I to possibly have some friction, after all when I was a young adult and a teenager, we fought. I was rebellious, she was strict. She is a Taurus and I am a Scorpio. Growing up, we pushed each others buttons, played devils advocate and often accidentally insulted each other in the name of love. Now my husband and I were spending three months living in my parents yard!?!? What was I thinking? Who came up with this insane plan? I did!
We got along the best we have since I was four years old. We had so much fun together. We did crafts, we played games, cruised around the lake and took day trips to cute little nearby towns.We were totally on the same team. My mom even taught me how to hook. I went to weekly hooking parties with all of her hooker friends. Trust me, this sounds far more scandalous and scintillating than it actually is.
My father and I have never really fought much. To my surprise we actually did have several spats this summer. The thing is, in the woods, you really tend to want to work these things out quickly because 1.)there is fun to be had and 2.)slamming a door and leaving really isn’t that easy.
Our quarrels weren’t serious, but it caught me off guard.
I feel closer to my parents now than I ever have before. We all took a risk immersing ourselves in each others lives and it really paid off in both fun and love! Rob and I both think that this just may have been the best summer of our lives!
Despite being in the woods, we had goals this summer. Some of them we attacked immediately, others took longer to get rolling. The first order of business was finding ways to make money. This was the perfect opportunity to tryout and hone our ability to have location independent income.
Rob got to work immediately by turning his ten year old computer repair business into something that can be done remotely. As I mentioned before, decent internet access is not easy to come by in the Northwoods… Rob paid a premium to have the good stuff installed at the cabin which was still far from city internet speeds; but it was good enough to support his clients. Rob also made sure he had a few associates in Austin that he could call on should a technician need to be physically present to assist a client. This all worked out really well! Survival income accomplished.
I kept teaching Yoga. Prior to going “Up North”, a friend of a friend of my mom was interested in having Semi-Private Yoga Therapy sessions with her friend and her daughter twice weekly. We set a weekly schedule as soon as I arrived.
Sometimes multiple family members of my Yoga clients would be visiting and I would teach “Family Yoga” to three different generations! It was beautiful to develop these different Yoga practices and through word of mouth I picked up several more clients. This was not just survival income but something that I looked forward to and enjoyed thoroughly. Helping others toward greater health and wellbeing has become my hearts work.
Our passion project is our band, Before Dawn. We love writing, recording and performing music together. We had a mission to do all of theses things this summer. We were in a different environment, in the woods, far from Austin. We played at tiny Northwoods bars and open mic nights, and made recordings in our little travel trailer. A change in environment is always good for creativity.
This change of scenery was a wonderful adventure that created many unexpected outcomes, opportunities and new relationships. Every time we played in front of people we were offered more opportunities to play. We seemed to play live shows minimally once a week in the various small towns up north like Minocqua, Land O’ Lakes and Iron River.
Sticking to a regimented writing and recording schedule was difficult, especially if the sun was out and the lake was calling. We were able to record our next single, “Light The Way“. It was a crowd favorite from our most recent tour.
We even got the chance to do a radio interview on WXPR. The DJ, Jeremy Starz, played four of our songs and debuted our new single, before its official release on September 30th. This was a first for us. The single is now available on Itunes.
Rob also made some summertime fun videos in the Northwoods. He also composed all of the music!
This is what we did this summer. This is what we did “Up North” with family, in our tiny house on wheels. It was all possible because we live tiny.
Stay tuned! More blogs, more music and more videos soon! By the way we are in Los Angeles now. How did we get here? Well, that is an interesting story. Sign up for blog updates and find out soon!